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Sounds So True.. What do U Think? ____________________________________________________ This is sooo true.. Hah.. I just receive this email from my friend and I would like to share this. It is just so true. Guys keep a look out when u encounter such stuff. Haha.
# # # # # # # # # # # # # # 11.05pm, guy and gal were chatting happily, when guy uncontrollably yawns Bad example gal (sounding out): you feeling sleeping?? guy: yeah, tired from work... gal (sounds concern): ok, shan't disturb u, go and sleep lah guy: ok, you have an early nite too.. guy hangs up the phone. 5 min later, phone rings awaken by the phone rings, guy: hello? gal: ............. guy: who's this? gal (feeling unjust): you felt very bothered by me is it? guy (confused): huh? what? gal: ............. guy: why? what happened? gal: you find me very bothersome is it? guy: bothersome? why you said this?? gal: .............. guy: what's the matter? how i would know if you dun say it out? gal: we are chatting halfway, and you yawn, and went off to sleep.. guy: b...but, you are the one who ask me to go to sleep... gal: you already said want to sleep already, what else u want me to say? guy: haiz... if you wanna chat, just say so... what for tell me to go sleep, and feeling unhappy in the end? gal: since when i'm unhappy? guy: isn't this unhappy? ok ok, i won't sleep the next time, will that do? gal: what's the point? i want you to chat with me willingly, and not because afraid that i will be unhappy... in the end, guy spend another ½hr comforting gal, actual sleep time is 11.40pm, plus the earlier argument, he did not have a good sleep. what worse is the gal may argue with the same thing again the next day. Good example gal (sounding out): you feeling sleepy? guy (tired vocal, but sound interested) : abit, tired from work. but you have not finished talking, carry on, i will be listening. gal (felt consoled): orh, but since you are tired, go and sleep then (still sounding out, never fall into the trap and hang up the phone) guy: there's no afternoon break today, indeed more tiring. how abt i give u a call tomorrow morning. let's chat awhile more ok? (tells the reason, and offer make up measure) gal: oh ok. go and sleep now, you must be tired. (gal is willing to let guy go sleep, but guy must do a bit more than this) guy: so what time you are going to sleep? gal: not sure, probably a bit later. guy: ok, but not too late, not good for health. i will be heart pain one hor... gal (feeling loved): ok lah... guy: i love you the most! (even if eyes are shutting also must remember to say this impt words, else all effort wasted) gal: i loved you too, have a good rest! (happy till can float liao) guy: ehmm... gal hang up the phone in the end, 11.10pm. guy sleep peacefully, and probably a morning call from gal the next day... conclusion 1: female wants feeling and care. most of the time, female's logic cannot be figure out with a reasoning mind. conclusion 2: say a few more touching words, concerning lines, will save you more than ½hr of precious time conclusion 3: when encounter the above situation, must always let the gal hang up the phone first. else it will be disastrous... conclusion 4: If your gf isn't like the one in the example, then congrats to u! treasure her! but if otherwise, dun accuse her of being unreasonable. what she wants is very simple.. # # # # # # # # # # # # # # |
