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Argument in a Relationship
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This post is more for BGR kinda relationship.

When there's a conflict in a relationship, or simply put as the guy "made" the girl angry, it's like the borrowing money from the loanshark.

If you don't repay your "loans" (the pacifying), the "interest" will multiply itself tremedously if the time is up. And like all loansharks, if you don't pay your "loans", they would start doing scary things.


LoansharkGF
ThreateningHang Pigs Head on DoorTo Break up
ActionVandalizeThrow Tantrum, throw stuff
ViolenceKill your familyKill herself


See the similarity?

Anyway, my advise is "Pay the loans before the time is up."

ju at 4:50 PM on March 31, 2007

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2 Comments:

So are you saying that a girl can never be the one making a guy angry?

And how do you know the time is up? And even if you do pay back, the interest is sometimes just too much.

RP

By Anonymous Anonymous, at 11:49 PM  

I think girls make guys angry too. But this post is mainly when the girl is extremely upset when the guy did something unacceptable to the girl.

And girls being girls, most would be unreasonable, want to be pampered and such. I would suggest that most of the time just give in first. When the storm dies down, probably the two of them could discuss about it again and sort out the issues.

Time... usually is the day itself, or 24 hrs. It should be slightly longer if she doesn't give the guy a chance to redeem himself. And if she gives a cold shoulder, the guy should be more active in redeeming himself.

Interest is for you to decide if it is too much. If it is, is it worth it? If it is worth it, it's not too much. :)

By Anonymous Anonymous, at 10:18 AM  

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