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being with someone ____________________________________________________ Which is better - Being with someone whom loves you or being with someone whom you love?
As usual, the best answer would be being with someone you love and your love being reciprocated. But how often does this situation occur? Not often. Being with someone who loves you would give you lots of goodness. They would take care of you, trying to give in to your needs. They would do whatever you want them to do. But no matter what they do, it does not really matter, because they are just not the one you love. Maybe one day you could become the livelong partner of the one who loves you. But the marriage might not be because you love the person, but rather of conveniences or obligations. You might be happy skin-deep, because you know that that person is not the one you love, you would be happier with the one you love. Some people could live with marrying someone who loves them more, because they want the other party to give more. They want to be taken care of, they want to be loved. They may feel that it is a better way. They may even think that one day they may really fall for the person. But I believe that once you recognized the ideal person for you, the person that you really love, everyone else would fall short of him/her. Being with the one you love, you would definitely be happy (duh!!). But it could also bring you hurt. They may not be as sensitive to you as you to them. They could even take you for granted. The hurts may leave you crying hour after hour, day after day. But it is up to yourself to judge if it is worth it. I guess the best is that you marry the person you love and the person also loves you. That is the ideal situation, but how many people can get it? Actually many. |
