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Theory ____________________________________________________ Theories are not difficult to formulate, just that we could not verbalize what we know. Recently, I am going through a study with my church friends. It was called "The Love Languages of God" by Dr Gary Chapman. His first book on this topic was "The Five Love Languages". I feel that it is quite a good book as it has helped me reflect on what I had done previously. One of the key topic he dealt with was "why don't you feel loved". When I looked back, my love languages with my previous boyfriends was indeed very different and hence I do not feel loved (and maybe Jan also din felt loved too). At that time, I felt that it was a major issue and it cannot be changed. Back at my head, I did understand that the way we expressed our feelings are different. I did not want anybody to change as I rather they find someone more suitable for them. I realized today that I know what was happening back then, but I do not know how to verbalize it. That's why I could not create any new theory. :( haha. |
