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Sounds So True.. What do U Think?
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This is sooo true.. Hah.. I just receive this email from my friend and I would like to share this. It is just so true. Guys keep a look out when u encounter such stuff. Haha.
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11.05pm, guy and gal were chatting happily, when guy uncontrollably yawns

Bad example

gal (sounding out): you feeling sleeping??
guy: yeah, tired from work...
gal (sounds concern): ok, shan't disturb u, go and sleep lah
guy: ok, you have an early nite too..

guy hangs up the phone.
5 min later, phone rings
awaken by the phone rings, guy: hello?
gal: .............
guy: who's this?
gal (feeling unjust): you felt very bothered by me is it?

guy (confused): huh? what?
gal: .............
guy: why? what happened?
gal: you find me very bothersome is it?
guy: bothersome? why you said this??
gal: ..............
guy: what's the matter? how i would know if you dun say it out?
gal: we are chatting halfway, and you yawn, and went off to sleep..
guy: b...but, you are the one who ask me to go to sleep...
gal: you already said want to sleep already, what else u want me to say?
guy: haiz... if you wanna chat, just say so... what for tell me to go sleep, and feeling unhappy in the end?
gal: since when i'm unhappy?
guy: isn't this unhappy? ok ok, i won't sleep the next time, will that do?
gal: what's the point? i want you to chat with me willingly, and not because afraid that i will be unhappy...

in the end, guy spend another ½hr comforting gal, actual sleep time is 11.40pm, plus the earlier argument, he did not have a good sleep. what worse is the gal may argue with the same thing again the next day.


Good example

gal (sounding out): you feeling sleepy?
guy (tired vocal, but sound interested) : abit, tired from work. but you have not finished talking, carry on, i will be listening.
gal (felt consoled): orh, but since you are tired, go and sleep then (still sounding out, never fall into the trap and hang up the phone)
guy: there's no afternoon break today, indeed more tiring. how abt i give u a call tomorrow morning. let's chat awhile more ok? (tells the reason, and offer make up measure)
gal: oh ok. go and sleep now, you must be tired. (gal is willing to let guy go sleep, but guy must do a bit more than this)
guy: so what time you are going to sleep?
gal: not sure, probably a bit later.
guy: ok, but not too late, not good for health. i will be heart pain one hor...
gal (feeling loved): ok lah...
guy: i love you the most! (even if eyes are shutting also must remember to say this impt words, else all effort wasted)
gal: i loved you too, have a good rest! (happy till can float liao)
guy: ehmm...
gal hang up the phone

in the end, 11.10pm. guy sleep peacefully, and probably a morning call from gal the next day...

conclusion 1:

female wants feeling and care. most of the time, female's logic cannot be figure out with a reasoning mind.

conclusion 2:

say a few more touching words, concerning lines, will save you more than ½hr of precious time

conclusion 3:

when encounter the above situation, must always let the gal hang up the phone first. else it will be disastrous...

conclusion 4:

If your gf isn't like the one in the example, then congrats to u! treasure her! but if otherwise, dun accuse her of being unreasonable. what she wants is very simple..

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ju at 11:29 PM on May 27, 2005

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Sentosa
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Finally went Sentosa again with the old gang. But this time round the number of people reduce by a lot. Used to have Shirlyn, Quin and the rest, but today only me, xiuli, liang and guohua. We stayed with xiuli's friends as they are there too.

This is the first time I really sit there and sun tan. Usually I would play ball only, then the package was suntanning. But today is really sit there and chill and suntan, looking at babes and 2 gangs of gays.

I am starting to like the particular beach that I went to today. The environment is good, the babes are beautiful, the food is great, the service is really wonderful too. It is really a good place to nuah in the afternoon, chill in the night. I am lovin' it. Haha..

Happy!!

I gonna go back again. ;)

Now waiting for xiuli to upload the pictures.

ju at 9:12 PM on May 23, 2005

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oUtInG w/ SHAN
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Finally get to go out with Shan. So happy.

First we went to Wing Tai building for sale which consist of Topshop, Topman, Warehouse, Nike Women, G2000, Dorothy Perkins, U2 and Fox. LiAnn came to the sale with us too. All 3 of us were quite disappointed as the amount of Fox is 2/3 of the sale. We like other brands better than Fox. The sizes are very odd too. For lady's appareal, it is mainly L and XL, while for man's appareal, it is S and M. Shan bought something for her brother and herself, but I did not buy anything.

Then we went Bugis. We alighted at Little India, wanting to take cab there, but no cab stop for us at the taxi stand. They stopped for those people who hailed them outside the taxi stand. I really wondered why. In the end, we walked to the bus stop to bus down to Bugis.

We went Bugis Village first because I wanted to show shan the special shop that we could get something for seirye (Rye... aint gonna tell you what is it). But seemed that the style is not what shan really wanted to get for seirye. So we just continued looking around until we settled for something else. Shan then went to get a hip dustbin for her friend. I thought it looks quite cool too. The retro prints are quite interesting. Shan said those dustbin used to be sold at Molecule. They really looked interesting. Maybe I should get the small one. But the small one cost 25 bucks. Mmm.. Time to ponder. haha.

The salegirl from that shop is quite cute. She kept offering us free gifts, like sweets, chocolates, etc. It is quite a good business tactic as the good service will attract the customers back. The malt candy there is very cute too. It is in the form of springe. I wonder how does a person consume that. Hah.

Bugis Village have become more vibrant. They even have a Bugis Cafe now at Upstairs. They also build an escalator too. I should go back soon, felt like getting a black bracelet from there.

We went to Bugis Junction to continue our search for seirye's prezzie. But can't find. Then we decided to bring her out to buy.

Idiot called and asked if I want to go onyx. Initially I do not really want to go cos I scared my dress code won't let me in. I told shan about it and she is interested to go too. I then confirm with Idiot that both of us are going. I am very very happy, cos I never did go drinking with shan before. Then we started wondering why, when both of us started drinking few years ago but never went once together before. Conclusion was that we do not have common friends that goes drinking together.

Since my dress code might not let me into Onyx, I suddenly had a BRILLANT IDEA. That is to go buy the Levis' Jeans that I wanted a long time ago. Killing 2 birds with one stone right? Haha. But the sad thing is that I did not bring out my card. It is so inconvient not to bring out card.

I happily bought the jeans and a top. I made the Levis' card too, then they give free t-shirt. The jeans is not the color that I initially wanted. The colour somehow made my hips looked bigger. So, through the sales assistant recommendation, I got a darker color and the cutting really fits my figure the best. But it also showed my fats. haha.

Then we headed to Shan's house. Initially wanted to stay over at her place. But I did not. I dirted my white skirt too. Because the color from my "basket" ran. My skirt have patched of pink color. I hope that I could washed them off. If not I'll be very very very sad.

We left shan's house around 11.30pm and meet Idiot at 12. It turned out that Idiot's friends could not make it that night, which made 5 of us (which 2 of shan's friends).

I am never going to drink Gin Tonic again. It is just too bitter for me, even though I like the sour taste.

ju at 9:14 PM on May 22, 2005

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schnook timeout - Episode 1
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Lady trying to call up her friend one afternoon. However her friend is not available to pick up the call.

Operator : The subscriber cannot be reached. Please try again later.

Lady: Oh.. She can't be rich (which sounds like reached), she must be poor. How does the operator knows?

(courtesy of Endon)

ju at 10:17 AM on May 21, 2005

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Quote of the Day
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"tears are just disposable containers to bottle sadness"

This is not a fact statement, just something that I felt today. Playing around with the words... Look carefully...

It might be true after all.. hah

ju at 10:15 AM on May 12, 2005

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throwing TANTRUM ......
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Yesterday was quite a bad day for me. Since now don't have boyfriend, so gotta complain on the blog. haha.

It started as a bad day.. :( .. My mum purposely do not want to pass to my god-mummy the cake that I bought her. So I gotta go down myself to pass it to her. My mum excuse was that I am going down to shape my eye-brown, so I can pass to her myself. But the thing is, I did not tell her I am going down to shape, plus the fact that I had already shaped my browns!!! Somemore I was having terrible cramp, then I have to walk under hot sun to bukit batok (cos no more bus stamp then ez-link card no money).

I went down and pass my god-mummy the cake, then I thought I could trim my hair too. The usual hair-dresser did not come today, it was her free day every money. So my mum manage to direct me to another hair-dresser. I regretted letting her cut my hair.

Firstly, I told her I wanna layer my hair. In the end, she make my hair thinner and only layered the bottom edges. It looked so weird. Moreover my kinda hair must go by layer, or it'll become pong pong. Initially I did not know she is making my hair less thick, cos the style of cutting is rather different. Until the end then I realised. Once she make my hair thinner, it is very hard to layer already. So in the end my hair looks terrible. Today was worse. Super pong when I wake up!!! T_T

The worst part have yet to come. She CUT my fringe!!!!! I looked terrible with short fringe and now it is pong pong too. SO UGLY!!!

Because of her, my favorite idiot can go and pierce his tongue. I had a bet with him. I am not going to cut my hair and he is not going to pierce. If ever I cut, he will pierce. I DON'T want him to pierce!! So gross!!!

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I am supposed to meet leo in the afternoon to pass his prezzie. He didn't know initially that I remembered his birthday. But anyway I don't feel like going initially cos of the pain, but in the end I still went to pass him the stuff (Leo don't be guilty). I went to Raffles City, Citilink and Esplanade and did not find any hp pouch that I want. I am starting to scratch my new phone which I think my brother will be quite pissed off about (Cos it was his phone and he want to trade in).

At night the pain still persisted. :( Then my router screwed up, can't go online. My bro was actually playing ard with the router. When he was done with it, I can't send song over to drew also. So sad... The person whom I wanted to talk to was busy with dunno what stuff, sadz sadz sadz.

The pain was bad bad bad. Then I have the urge to throw tantrum, but I decided not to and go to bed.

Sadzz.

Stupid hair.

Bad day.

Today vinc was laughing at me when I told him about the hair.. :(

So sad.... I wanna throw Tantrum!! ... I wanna .....*sniff* *sniff*

ju at 11:14 AM on May 10, 2005

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Lesbians
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Today I went to watch "It takes 2" by Selena Tan and Hossan Leong, with my favourite/most hated idiot. So happen I bump into my primary school cum seconday school friend Ivy. I said "hi" to her. It was quite sad that she does not remember me but I guess such things are inevitable. The stupid idiot kept saying that I wanna hit on her and I should get her number too. Thoughout the whole time, he kept repeating, saying that all the signs pointed me towards lesbianism.

He noted :

1) I always looks at girls
2) I do contact dance with girls
3) The other night a girl just squeezed my bum, and he assumed that I did get excited because of that.
4) He assumed that I have suppressed feelings for girls.

He too kept instilling Lesbian ideas into me. Stupid IDIOT. After the show, he kept going on and on about lesbian, that I should not "suppress" my feeling for them, I should walk out of the closet, blah blah.. IDIOT!!!!!!

Anyway after dinner with him, I went home.

On the bus, there is this lesbian couple beside me. They were talking happily. But one of the girls kept getting in contact with me. I thought it was by accident, but later on I found out it was not.

Initially I was standing beside them, then when there were seats, I went to sit down. But the girls alighted before me. So when they alight, they have to walk past me and I felt a hand carressing mine. When I looked up, it was her! The same her!!! Arghzzzz!!!

Today is such a lesbian day..!!! -_-""""""

But still my favorite idiot is still a TOTAL IDIOT!!!!!


Tixs

ju at 11:44 PM on May 7, 2005

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Holidays
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Holidays are here. Hehe...

I had been enjoying myself for the past 2 days, went shopping, and some more shopping. I went Zouk too!! Girls dun be jealous... we go together next week. heh.. and Jason says he'll treat drinks.. haha. I did not break the tradition of going Zouk after every last paper for the past few semester.. haha.

Today finally get to rest at home. Did a lot of personal admin, like clearing my wardrobe and change my bedsheets. hehe. I really did rest well today!!

Will be enjoying myself for the rest of the holidays too.

Will keep u updated.

Bye~~~

ju at 11:29 PM on May 5, 2005

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